“Is this real life? Is it just fantasy?”
This has been one of those weeks that can’t possibly be real. Queen, it must be fantasy.
Yesterday, I found out that Nanoism accepted my twitter fiction. Today, MTV accepted my essay on overcoming gender stereotypes, “Confessions from an Ex-Sexist.”
Woohoo!ย What an awesome start to the week (and to April).
Check out my short articleย here.ย Let’s show MTV some love ๐
Congratulations! This is phenomenal. ๐
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Thank you!!!! ๐
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Great work! I’ve checked out your article and it’s really good… except for one tiny thing. I came across this line: “Ballroomโs inherent male lead played into gender stereotypes” and my brain span.
Now I’m not a great fan of ballroom and don’t tend to watch “Strictly Come Dancing” (as “Dancing With The Stars” is called over here in the UK) but if ever there was a TV show that obliterated the male gender stereotype, it’s that.
Guys who tend to do well are former athletes (rugby players seem to win it, apparently). These are blokes that play hard contact sport in mud; they drink lots of beer; they sing rude songs. They are the epitome of hairy-arsed physical masculinity. And then they appear on TV in pink sequinned shirts open to the navel, trying to hold their arms right, chin up and hips … erm… doing whatever hips are supposed to do (I told you I don’t really watch it).
The upshot is, there are also some serious shades of grey/gray on the other side of the gender divide!
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It’s a good point – I don’t watch it the US’ version, either. Ballroom is a wonderful shade of gray!
What I was getting at that with that line, though, is that it is the male (and not the female) who normally dances lead. What this means is that the leaders (usually male) decides what move is danced next, and the follower (usually female) must do that move. The follower (usually female) can’t really do her own thing. That’s where I was going with that line, but on second read, I realize how confusing that is.
Thanks for pointing that out! ๐
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Yeah, I kind of thought that’s probably what you meant, but couldn’t resist highlighting the other meaning! ๐
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‘Tis always good to be aware of those other meanings ๐ Thanks!
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How exciting for you!!! I couldn’t be more happy for you and you totally deserve it! What an abundant week and life you have been given! โค
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Awww, thank you so much! ๐ That’s very sweet!!
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I can relate so much to you! You opened my eyes to some things I have been doing, that is for sure. Self awareness is key!
awesome for you miss. (:
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Awww, thanks! ๐ I’m glad my piece spoke to you.
Thanks for commenting!
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how exciting!!
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It is! Thank you for commenting ๐
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Amazing piece! As ashamed as I am I think I can really relate so thank you so much for this powerful piece of inspiration! ๐
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Thanks for your kind words! ๐
And don’t be ashamed — you’re not alone. There’s no better time to change our actions/words than now ๐ Stay strong!
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That’s fantastic! It’s must feel amazing to get your stuff out in the world:) Well done.
I’ve nominated you for the Liebster blogger award, so if you want to know more about it you can read about it here: ihaveabadsenseofhumor.wordpress.com
Have a nice day!
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Haha sorry, I didn’t realize you had more than 200 followers, but that doesn’t matter:) Then I’m just gonna break the rules a little bit;P
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You’re actually the second person to nominate me in the past two weeks, so we’ll all break the rules together ๐
Thank you so much!!
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Hi I have nominated you for the Liebster Award. Hope you accept it. You can get the details here:https://writer953.wordpress.com/2016/05/27/the-liebster-award/
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Thank you! ๐
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Great blog, Natalie!
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Thank you! ๐
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Though it’s really late, congrats!
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Appreciated nonetheless ๐ Thanks!
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Natalie, I have just nominated you for the ‘One Lovely Blog’ award.
Take a look at my site (and my most recent post) for the details.
Love and Peace ๐
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Thank you! I definitely will ๐ Rock on!
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Loved this piece. Really fantastic. Agree wholeheartedly with what you have written. I too am guilty of the same. I look at girly girls and those who have probably put a lot more effort into their appearance than I do as shallow….and to be honest, I thought they intellect was inversely proportionate to their looks. I know. I was no better than they were for judging me for not wearing the coolest or trendiest clothes, or matching make up to out fit, or having 25 pairs of shoes with heels.
Great work here.
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We’re not alone — many people have struggled with this. Thank you for your kind words!
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Haven’t read yet, but “liking” so i can read later. This is so cool!
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I hope you enjoy it!
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This is awesome!! Congrats!!
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Thank you!!! ๐
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Congratulations! I had to go read the full article and I think it is so amazing that not only have you come so far, but we have all come so far and I am happy that we are all working towards a world with less judgement and prejudice. Keep up the great work!
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Awww, thanks! That means a lot ๐ It’s crazy when I look back on how far I’ve come — and you’re right: I hope we can all continue to work toward a better world. Thanks for stopping by!
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Anytime! I cant wait to read more of your writing!
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You’re too sweet โค
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