Thanks to alceptress for nominating me for the three-day quote challenge!
“‘That’s not a bad thing–not being the hookup type,’ she says, ignoring me. ‘And neither is being the girl who likes the hook-up. What makes any of it wrong is when you pretend to be something you’re not. That’s when the heartache starts.’”
– Katie McGarry, Nowhere But Here
Though I’m not a huge fan of romance novels (or hooking up), the implications of this quote reach far beyond romance: know what type of person you are and act on what works for you. Not pursuing your interests? Letting peer pressure get the best of you? Never relaxing, even when your body needs it desperately? All three of these actions force you to pretend — that your passion doesn’t matter, that your differing opinion is less valuable because it’s in the minority, that you’re invincible. And all three of these lead to different types of heartache.
Different things work for different people, and we need to know ourselves in order to know how to avoid or overcome our individual heartaches. It all comes down to self-awareness, which is exactly what But Why? is all about. 🙂
Per the quote challenge rules, I now nominate two new people: I’d love to hear what sort of quotes are meaningful to Julie from Just a Girl and a Bike and Paul from Comics and the Cross. The rules: Post three quotes across three different days, link to my blog, and nominate two new folks, if you choose to do so.
Stay tuned for parts two and three!
Love this 🙂
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Thanks! Glad you enjoyed it 🙂
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Yes being true to yourself is soooo inportant!
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For sure 🙂 Thanks for stopping by!
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Oooohh I really enjoyed this blog post… I look forward to more too, will drop a follow too! Thanks for your feedback before as well xxx
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Thank you, and I’m glad I could help! 🙂
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Love this idea! And love the quotes you have chosen for your 3 dailies!
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Thank you! If you want to do it, go for it! Consider this an unofficial nomination 😉
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Thank-you! I may take you up on the unofficial business 😏
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Go for it! I was apprehensive about doing it, but it was a cool break from my usual (serious) content 🙂
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Great post Natalie!!! I Iook forward to participating 🙂
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Thanks! 🙂 Your quotes are sure to be wonderful.
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So true. I think it’s important to note that we shouldn’t judge others just because they have different tastes. Whether they’re hooking up with someone every day or never dated anyone before, it’s what works for them .
Love this post, and I excited to see what you write next 🙂
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“It’s what works for them.” Exactly 🙂 Rock on! Thanks so much for stopping by!
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Great quote! 🙂
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I LOVE this quote – makes me think about how nothing is inherently wrong or right, it only matters in relation to you and your values. Thanks for sharing!
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Very true — what works for each of us is different. Thanks so much for stopping by! 🙂
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